Confusion on the Web

“Linkedin is for people you know, Facebook is for people you used to know, Twitter is for people you want to know.”

 

This quote has been often used to describe social media. If you're a member of all three social networks, then you easily get the sense of each one. I created a LinkedIn account about a month ago and immediately figured out this is nothing like Facebook. Other users know when you've clicked their profile regardless if you're connected or not. Professionalism is key which means lying about your accomplishments and who you are are not what you want future employers to see.

I found it interesting that somebody I didn't know invited me to connect. I noticed this person went to the same school as me and seemed to know the same people I  know. Then, I noticed that she joined a group that my best friend happens to work for. Using some deductive reasoning, I thought this unknown connection worked with my best friend. Turns out, that wasn't the case. My friend had no idea who this person was despite knowing everybody who works in the group's office. 

The point is, social media can convince users to lie or exaggerate about ourselves to create an opportunity. LinkedIn is great for looking for employers, but it's also a way for people to make themselves look more appealing for a particular job. 

That's what I'm assuming this person who I didn't know or my friend didn't know, was trying to do. She fell into the habit of trying to look as if you know many people, when really you don't. It's just another example of how lying is part of the Web culture.